When I reflect on the feminine soul, tells me that he is not a man, not a woman, and not even the mind, even though I use the them, — he tells me the consciousness. Consciousness is not
Therefore, when we talk of body, of mind, of the word "male" and "female" are most appropriate. However, there is something that goes beyond these two concepts, is transcendental. This is the true core of the person, its essence. This essence is composed only of consciousness, of presence, of observation. It is pure consciousness.
I am not speaking now as the man, in the name of men; otherwise, talk about a woman would not be possible at all. I say as the consciousness. Many times I've lived in the female body, many times when I lived in the male body, I have been a witness of it all. I have seen all of the house, I've seen all the clothes. My words are based on the experience not only of the present life, but of many, many previous lives. This is my life — only the culmination of a long pilgrimage.
Therefore, do not take my words as the words of a man or a woman, do not reflect on this; otherwise, simply not listening to me. Think of me as consciousness.
(The Dhammapada: The Way of The Buddha)
1. The WOMAN
It seems to Me that you're the only person on this planet who really understands women and accepts them as they are. Please comment.
I have already said that the woman needs love and understanding. This is the first.
Life is so mysterious that you can't get to your height, you can't look in their deep secrets. Any manifestation of life — a man, a woman, a tree, an animal or a bird is an object of scientific study, and not mystical. I am not a scientist. Science itself is a mystery to me, and today, scientists have begun to recognize this. Today refuse to accept their old all the erroneous statements about what once you know the secret of everything there is to understand.
Thanks to albert einstein science began to develop completely the other way, because the more you sank into the mysteries of matter, both in the confusion came. He had to resign to the logic and the rationality. Life is not desired, since it does not depend on your logic. The logic is a quality inherent to the human being. Albert einstein recalled a moment in your life when you had doubts about whether or not they adhere to the rationality... But that would be stupid. This behavior is characteristic of a person, but it would be unwise. Even if you stubbornly cling to the logic, the rationality, it is evident that the life is not going to listen to your logic; on the contrary, the logic of reason should submit to the logic of life. There comes a time, when there is to discard the logic, the rationality, and simply listen to nature. I call it a higher understanding, but not in the normal sense of the word. You know, what you feel, but don't have the words to express this.
The man is a mystery, woman is a mystery, all of life is a mystery, and all our attempts to reveal its doomed.
I remember the case, when in the toy store of the man she bought the gift of a child at christmas. Because he was a famous mathematician, the owner of the shop dictated the image-the enigma. The mathematician has tried to pick up his... it was a great puzzle game. He could not mount an image, everything was working up a sweat and was beginning to feel uncomfortable. By their unsuccessful attempts to have observed the buyers, sellers, and the owner of the store, and he could not pick up. In the end, he did not survive the nerves, and he has shouted at the store owner: "If I, the mathematician, I can not mount the image, such as a child to do the task?"
The owner replied: "You have not understood anything. Puzzle designed in order that nobody could guess, nor a mathematician, nor any other person".
"In the same sense similar to the guessing game?" — asked the mathematician.
"This is done to ensure that the child since the childhood, she learned to understand that the life you can not guess that you can not understand," said the owner of the shop.
The life you can enjoy life to be happy, you can be a part of their secrets, but to understand, as a detached observer, it is absolutely impossible.
I don't understand to himself. For me the biggest secret I am me. But I will give you some tips:
A psychiatrist is the one who, for a small charge specifies it, the same questions that the woman set it free.
The keys to happiness: can you talk about the love, of tenderness, of passion, but real ecstasy you'll try to discover that after all this, you still have not lost their keys.
The woman first beats the attack of the men, and then it cuts the path of brute force.
If you want to change the woman, according to her. If you want to know that women actually in mind, look at it, but don't listen.
The woman ran to the police
— Sees a man in the corner of the house, which acts to put myself to the nerves.
— I have seen, " answered the police — or even looked in his direction.
— That's it, and that acts get on my nerves.
Romantic, the young man turned to the beauty on his bed and said: "I to you first?"
After reflecting a moment, she replied: "it may be, I have terribly poor memory of the person".
A mystery: it is better to enjoy life, to try to understand. At the end, which is to understand life, turns out to be a fool, but he who enjoys life, becomes a wise man, and you are still receiving pleasure, because it is increasingly aware that the mystery of everything that surrounds us.
The greater understanding lies in the fact that nothing can be understand that everything is mysterious and wonderful